Does Your 13-Year-Old Need a Louis Vuitton Purse?

Close up of Louis Vuitton bag

Editor’s note from 2011: In light of our current economic situation, I wanted to share this TBF post discussing the increased level of brand consciousness among millennials (those born in the late 80s-mid 90s). It’s interesting to read the comments from the then teenagers, justifying their need for a Gucci bag at 13. I wonder how those same teens (now young adults), feel about their comments now.

The 2019 Update on Designer Bags for Teens

According to Statista, the most popular handbag brand among teens as of fall, 2018 is Michael Kors — followed by Kate Spade, Coach, Louis Vuitton and Gucci. Clearly, this topic is still relevant, which explains why this continues to be one of the most-read posts of all time on The Budget Fashionista.

So let’s get right to the essential question: does a 13-year-old need a Louis Vuitton purse?

The following passage originally came from a Wall Street Journal article on the targeting of teens for luxury items like designer bags, cars, etc. (We’d link to it but that article is not available online.)

Driving the shift is a generation of young people often called the teenage “millennials” — the adolescents and young adults born in the late-1980s to mid-90s. Of course there have always been teens who were focused on the “right” designer names, and marketers striving to sway them. (Remember Brooke Shields in her Calvins?) But apparel makers and retailers say the affluent millennials are particularly notable for their brand consciousness. Surrounded by brand references from Web sites, rap music, movies, magazines and MTV — and showered with the best of everything by their baby boomer parents — these young consumers have grown up knowing the difference between Prada and Ralph Lauren from an early age.

Wall Street Journal

Teens & Designer Labels

I agree that teens wanting designer labels isn’t anything new — I remember begging for a pair of Gibraud jeans and working my butt off for a Ralph Lauren Polo button-down shirt.  But I’m concerned about the apparent entitlement that many teens feel in regards to designer labels and the apparent lack of a backbone by parents to say no.

It’s the job of teenagers to push and it’s the job of parents to set boundaries. However, when it comes to designer goods, it seems like parents just can’t say no anymore. For example, one guy in the article even stated “If they keep their grades up, it is hard to say no.”

I was a straight-A student, got a full academic scholarship to a great school, and my parents had absolutely no problem saying no. In fact, I think they secretly plotted new and creative ways to say “no” to my irrational, teenage requests.

Prada designer handbag

I mean, why does your 13-year-old (or a 20, or 30, or 40)  HAVE to have a $700 handbag or a BMW before they even learn what a responsibility it is to drive? Plus, always rewarding good behavior with an extravagant gift probably doesn’t teach a very good lesson to your teen. There are times in life that you do good things and you receive no reward other than the fact you did good, which apparently just doesn’t compare to a new Dooney Burke Bag.

Whatever happened to going out for a big dinner with your entire family when you got a good grade? We’re creating a whole generation of spoiled consumers with very unrealistic expectations about life.

Designer Bags, and Then What?

Anyone who’s ever watched MTV’s Sweet Sixteen knows exactly what I’m talking about. A $50,000 party and new Jaguar for a spoiled 16-year-old? Please. What do they have to look forward to when they graduate from college? A small town and a Rolls Royce? If you have a million dollar bar (or bat) mitzvah, are you going to have a $2 million wedding? Where does it end? Seems like everything else in their lives will be downhill in comparison.

Designer items are not a human right. They are nice and I love a good bag as much as the next person, but I also have a job.

Handbags for Teens

Perhaps you came across this post in need of a reasonable, teen-appropriate handbag. Now that we’ve vented on what NOT to buy, let’s get to the question of what type of handbag you could buy a 13-year-old.

Practically speaking, her tastes are going to change fast. Maybe before this season’s even over. But you can’t buy a super-cheap, fast-fashion bag from Walmart or Target because her friends will call her out. Kids are mean that way.

If your teen is a creative individualist, you might get away a quirky (and more affordable) brand like Betsey Johnson. If you shop the sales, you can keep your outlay down near $50.

A second option is to shop the stores that carry designer brands for less in hopes of finding a gem. Try:

Of course, going this route doesn’t really send the right message unless you tell your teen you bought it at a budget store. Same goes for buying used at TheRealReal or Poshmark. In other words, if you can’t tell the kid that a $300+ bag is not an option, you’re better off giving her a gift card. The smart and determined ones will save up the gift cards to get the bag they want.