Dear Budget Fashionista,
I have a wedding to attend in late June and I found a black dress with small white polka dots that I love. Is it a fashion don’t to wear black to a wedding?
Answer: While wearing black to a wedding shouldn’t necessarily be your first color choice, it’s not as much of a fashion “faux pas” anymore, especially for formal evening weddings.. My advice is to where the black polka dotted dress (polka dots are very “in”, right now) but pair it with a red/yellow/white belt and a similar color shoe to brighten the outfit up a bit. If you want something new, try this Silk Polka Dot Dress, for $99.00 at Spiegel.com
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Love that dress! If the wedding ceremony is to be held in a house of worship, you should add a shrug, jacket or wrap of some sort.
I have been planning an outfit for a wedding since October! It is a July wedding of a dear friend from college, and it will be a reunion of sorts, enabling me to see friends I haven’t seen in years. Of course, I want to make a great impression
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However, I have been having so much trouble. At first I was looking for a dress, but I can’t find one this isn’t cliched or overdone. (Wrap dresses are stunning and simple, but I have a feeling everyone will be wearing one). So I will be wearing a top/skirt combination. I’ve always been taught that black is ok, but the only person that can wear white is the bride. I’ve seen a great outfit of a a colbalt blue top and a white (or black) pencil skirt with black shoes and a white clutch. Is a white skirt, or white accessories or patterns w/ white ok now?
Hey Kari-
Wearing white to a wedding,even with another color, is a risky move.. mostly because it depends on the scale of the white piece- a white skirt with a blue duster is different than a white skirt with a blue shell/tank. I would probably avoid white all together- just not worth the potential “faux pas”. That being said I wouldn’t wear black shoes, because that will make the outfit too dark. Instead, pair the outfit with one of this season’s hot new colors in shoes like red or even yellow.
Wrap dresses are becoming “over used” but that doesn’t mean you should skip the style all together. Instead of wearing a wrap in a stretch jersey material, check out the cotton versions of the dress.
Well, if you wouldn’t wear it to church, why would you wear it to a wedding? But that’s me. I went to a wedding last August where half the women looked like they were ready to go out to a club afterwards. There were some great shoes in the mix, but otherwise it just didn’t seem appropriate. I would say that if you are going to wear black, adding colored accessories is a great way to break it up and make it look more appropriate. If it’s a church wedding, throw in a wrap or a shrug too.
Ah, wrap dresses would become overused just as I found one that fits me well. lol. Anywho… I learned my fashion etiquette from my grandma so I don’t think it is okay to wear an all black dress to a wedding happening in the daytime since it is not as formal as a late afternoon or evening wedding.
A patterned black dress seems appropiate and black & white seems to be a huge trend this spring/summer. Do add bright colored accessories.
When it comes to wearing separates, how about palazzo pants?
I think black is fine to wear to a wedding. Nowadays mostly anything goes. I wouldn’t wear black to the wedding if I were a parent of the bride or groom. I think that sends a bad message…lol….and of course always accessorize !!
Barbara
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I thought black is always appropriate for a wedding? At every wedding I’ve ever been to, about half of the women wear little black dresses. Is that something that varies by region? (I’m in the northeast)
It’s a wonderful dress so I say go for it. I wore a black Chinese style dress with gold flowers to my sister’s wedding. No need for a wrap unless it’s chilly. A wedding is a celebration.
Black and white is safer than plain black but I’d still hesitate to wear that as a day dress to a wedding. I think it’d be fine after dark.
Thank you, thank you TBF!! I didn’t even think about bright colored shoes! I think a taxi-cab yellow would look great with the cobalt top and black pencil skirt. Time to go shopping!!!!
I have a white dress w/ black polka dots and black floral detail at the hem and a black belt. Would that be ok to wear to a wedding?
iv got the same problem lori mine is a white dress with small black flowers, strapless, black band under the bust,knee length with a small black netting underneath.it also has small silver beads in the flowers, what do you think please let me know before saturday as thats the wedding thanks x
Where are you people from? I live in NYC and have never been to a wedding——and I’ve been to a lot of weddings—- where at least 70% of the women were wearing non-black
just surfing the net and came across this page, and boy am I glad I did!! Since you were all so helpful about the first dress question, I am attending a wedding on saturday and my boyfriend is in the wedding party. The colors of the wedding are sage green and silver (I think?) i am planning on wearing a black halter dress to the reception but think it is inappropriate to wear to the church ceremony (color and style)
I have a reddish chocolate brown jersey dress that crosses across the chest and ties in the back and there is a fine red trim along the neckline and where the dress crosses in the front… do you think that chocolate brown and red are okay to wear for a July wedding? and do you think this dress will be dressy enough for the church ceremony? Please help!!
btw, I plan on adding fancy/sparkly red jewelry, red clutch, and if I can find them, gravity defying red heels
thanks for any input in advance!
I am wearing a black dress with yellow shoes to a wedding. Do I wear gold or silver jewelry?
I am wearing a sage dress to a wedding what shoes would look good, the dress also had a silver border.
Dear Fashionist,
I need advice. I am attending a wedding and am wearing a wine color dress that has a white bow.
Is it ok for me to wear white shoes and to carry a white purse?
If not, what others colors can you suggest that I wear?
Thank you.
I’ve always heard it’s worse to wear white to a wedding. I’ve wore black to a wedding three times (that I remember). One had pink accents, one had silver sparkle, and one had white trim. When I wear black to a wedding I make sure I don’t look like I’m going to a funeral by wearing accessories such as bold jewelry.
Quite astonished with this query…for me, it’s really NOT advisable although black is a natural color but try to consider the event. It’s a wedding and we used to see black dresses worn during funeral (lol) so why bother to wear that color in a happy event such as a wedding? Unless otherwise one hates the groom or the bride (lol) <a href=“http://www.bradfordsbakers.com”>hampers</a>
i have a really nice black tube top dress that comes down to right past my knees its really cute, and i have a white sash to go over it. white pumps wth a sexy black heel for shoes. but i wanted to wear a red rose in my hair and maybe a red clutch. think that would work even though theres no red in the dress?