My two cents? I think people should focus on what looks best on them AND what makes them feel good about themselves. The young woman wearing the lower rise jeans with the muffin top doesn’t wear them cause they look good, but she wears them cause that is what her role models wear.
I am very concerned about the hyper-sexualization of young girls, particularly those 11 and under. I have a 10 year old niece, whom I am very close to, and it is quite difficult to find age appropriate clothes for her.