Just entering the civilian work force after 11 years in the military. I got the suits at great prices but I think the sleeves on my jackets could use tailoring. Where should the sleeves hit on my arms/wrists? I am a busty size 16 5’8” and have always just left the sleeves alone. But I feel like they are sloppy down by my knuckles.
Also, what are the preferred tops to wear under jackets? I’ve been told ‘nothing’ (huh?) and just sleeveless tops. I picked up a few sleeveless tops just in case but I have tattoos to cover as well (told you I was in the military!) so a short-sleeve top would be best. I hate layering so it needs to be thin material. But what’s best? Where do I find them? Solid color or can a pattern be appropriate too?
I’m a little nervous about that first impression if you can’t tell.

Hi! For under jackets, Target usually has some great suiting tops—meaning they’re short sleeved, in solid neutrals and colors, often seamless and in a variety of necklines—v-neck, boatneck, crew, etc. They’re also usually really cheap, from $9.99 to $14.99, if memory serves
As far as sleeve length goes, knuckles is probably too long, and at the wrist is too short—hit somewhere in between, so that when you move around they don’t pull up so your wrist is showing, but also so that when your arms are at your sides it’s not just your fingers poking out. A tailor or seamstress (or even someone at the department store) should be able to help you figure out what length is appropriate.
Hope that helps—good luck!

I like wearing thin, but not sleeveless shirts in the workplace. Usually, the jacket is the first thing to come off, so the shirt has to fit well since that’s what everyone will see. If you haven’t purchased two nicely tailored white shirts, let me suggest J Jill. I found the perfect white shirt over there, and I swear by it. It FITS. It’s called the essential shirt. Also, I like thin silk sweaters to wear with suits as well.  Don’t forget accessories. Scarves, necklaces, pins. All of these things can really stretch a wardrobe.

Yes, get your suit tailored. You’ll have to leave your things with the tailor for up to 2 weeks, so make sure you’ve got something in reserve. Have you purchased a few dresses?

If you are still near the base you retired from, find out who does the ETAP classes (for higher ranking officers).  They usually include a session on dressing for the workplace and can either get you a copy of the handout or tell you who has presented the class in the past.  This will probably be someone from a small local clothing store who knows a lot about fit, fabrics, what is appropriate workplace casual, etc.

I like to wear thin sweaters, cute (but professional) tank tops, and blouses (especially with some special detail or embellishment) underneath suit jackets.  Also, if your job permits you to, try some other outfits besides the standard suit.  How about a pencil skirt with a button-down shirt or a sweater?  Or a shift dress with a cardigan?  I really try to have fun with my work outfits-- you should too! :-D