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      <title>Where Do Mature Fashionistas Go for Fashion Information/Inspiration&#63;</title>
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      <published>2008-08-06T09:25:20Z</published>
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        Most fashion mags and sites, it seems, cater to the younger, "trendy" fashion set -- so I wanted to hear from mature fashionistas on where you go to get fashion/style information and inspiration that's appropriate to you and your lifestyle? Also, would love to hear other thoughts on the subject . . .
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      <title>Books or DVDs that you&#8217;ve found helpful</title>
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      <published>2008-07-27T15:49:20Z</published>
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        I'm going to share my "bookshelf", but I'm hoping others will chime in on good books they've read (<b>budget fashionista being one of course</b>) that have helped.<br />
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In keeping with the Mature Fashionista thought here are some I have that have been extremely helpful.<br />
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<b>How Not to Look Old: Fast and Effortless Ways to Look 10 Years Younger, 10 Pounds Lighter, 10 Times Better by Charla Krupp </b>This is EXCELLENT! I would advise getting this first and working thru it. From makeup and skin care to dental work, and clothing tips this is the best of the first 3 that I mention.<br />
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<b>The Grown-Up Girl's Guide to Style: A Maintenance Bible for Fashion, Beauty, and More . . . by Christine Schwab</b> is a tough love approach to some good tips and pointers, some of which I take leave to ignore, like the don't wear sleeveless tops anymore rule. I don't have good upper arms, but I don't care, my batwings fly free! However I like the no holds barred tough love straight talking style, and I prefer to know the rules first, then feel free to break them.<br />
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<b>Staging Your Comeback: A Complete Beauty Revival for Women Over 45 by Christopher Hopkins  </b>This one is a combination of wardrobe, makeup and hair advice, which I liked but it's one that most should get out of the library first to see if it is for them.  Not one for the permanent keepers bookshelf.<br />
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<b>40 Over 40: 40 Things Every Women over 40 Needs to Know About Getting Dressed by Brenda Kinsel </b>is a real confidence builder. Brenda introduces the important concept of clothing as armour, something that gives us confidence, projects who we wish to be seen as at any given moment and helps us choose well. I love this book.<br />
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<b>Danica Lo's How Not to Look Fat </b>is a good guide to picking clothes and learning posture and walking tips to help me feel my best in the clothes I have. <br />
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<b>Don't Go to the Cosmetics Counter Without Me, 7th Edition by Paula Begoun</b> has saved me a bundle of money in the anti aging skin care section of my drugstore as well as at the cosmetic counter. I've owned various previous editions of this classic and it's ALWAYS saved me more, way more than it cost to buy the book.<br />
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<b>The Skin Type Solution by Leslie Baumann</b> is a no nonsense guide to skin care, by a premier dermatologist in Miami. She dishes on which products for which skin type, but the greatest value comes in her quiz at the beginning to determine skin type. I've used it successfully on myself, my daughter and daughter in law. Useful and a real keeper.<br />
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<b>Bobbi Brown Beauty Evolution: A Guide to a Lifetime of Beauty by Bobbi Brown</b>. I love her natural looking style of makeup. She shows how to do a good application at different ages, but also how to care for skin. A keeper.<br />
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<b>The 5-Minute Face: The Quick & Easy Makeup Guide for Every Woman by Carmindy</b> is another great makeup tips book. Mostly I love this for the ultra simplified application tips.<br />
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<b>Fit and Fabulous After 40: A 5-Part Program for Turning Back the Clock by Denise Austin </b> is my new favourite exercise book. Simple routines combining stretching, Yoga and Pilates, nothing jarring or too hard. No expensive equipment.
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      <title>Accessories for the &#8220;Mature&#8221; Fashionista</title>
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      <published>2008-07-26T23:37:52Z</published>
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        Are there limits to what types of accessories a "mature" fashionista can/should wear? Do appropriate accessories change over time? Or does it all depend on your personal sense of style? Tell me what you think . . .
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      <title>Favourite splurges that make you feel terrific</title>
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      <published>2008-07-27T20:59:26Z</published>
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        Mine are scarves and perfume. Scarves don't need to be silk but they need to feel nice and look rich in colours I love. I want to feel good when I put them on, just like the perfume.<br />
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Perfume is actually more of an addiction or collection. Applied with a light hand it is far nicer then the chemical scents in detergents, fabric softeners and air fresheners. Those are headachey along with cheap perfumes but some of the expensive ones that I like don't trigger my migraines (yay!) or asthma (double yay)<br />
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Whether it is because the good stuff uses good stuff and the cheap stuff causes trouble I don't know for sure but I found I can tolerate some good perfumes (not all by any means, some good perfumes cause a resounding headache, and others just trigger asthma)<br />
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When I stopped trying to make one perfume fit me, and started collecting then I found I wore it without getting tired of one scent in particular.<br />
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I have a stable of them now, not budget but a lot of fun and makes me feel really good. A little goes a long way.<br />
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I keep them dark and cool but not in the fridge. One perfume expert I talked to advised against that. Several have told me to keep them either in a dark drawer like lingerie drawers or else inside the box to extend their life.<br />
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My top favourite is <b>Bvlgari Pour Femme</b> and I layer others on top depending on my mood.<br />
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<b>Joy </b>and <b>Chanel #5</b> and also <b>Blue Grass</b> are good with that one. All sort of light and floral.<br />
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by themselves I use <b>Coco</b> and <b>Coco Mademoiselle</b>, and <b>Shalimar.</b> They are better not being layered. Coco and Shalimar are heavier for winter and more oriental.<br />
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Another 2 that I prefer to wear by themselves are <b>Mitsouko </b>and <b>L'Heure Bleu</b>.<br />
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Finally <b>Eau d'Hadrien</b> is a superb lemony summer fragrance but I've only been able to use testers, it's next on my "<i>treat to buy when I can afford to</i>" list along with Aeryn Lauders <b>Private Collection Tuberose Gardenia</b>.
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      <title>What&#8217;s the Most Important Style Lesson You&#8217;ve Learned&#63;</title>
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      <published>2008-05-13T11:22:17Z</published>
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        Okay, by the time we get to a certain age, we've learned a thing or two about style that may not have been so obvious when we were younger and blinded by trendiness. I'm only in my 30s, but I have definitely learned the value of good pair of heels and a great fitting jacket, which can take just about anything from ho-hum to reasonably chic. So, "mature" fashionistas, share some of your hard-earned style wisdom . . .
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      <title>Graying Hair&#8212;To Dye or Not to Dye&#63;</title>
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      <published>2008-07-14T09:52:43Z</published>
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        Okay, mature fashionistas -- this is more beauty than fashion related, but the lack of gray-haired ladies in the fashion industry/media at large has me wondering about the opinions of the everyday fashionista on the subject. Whether it's a few stray strands you have (like me) or a full head of silver  -- what are your thoughts on covering the gray in today's style climate? Do you dye? If so, why? If not, how do you feel about the subject on the whole? Do tell . . .
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      <title>How could clothing designers/manufacturers help out the mature fashionista&#63;</title>
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      <published>2008-05-24T12:09:28Z</published>
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        Maybe they'll read this!!  I'll start out.  I want: <br />
1.  clothes for the gym.  I want knee-length gym shorts that are NOT like spandex...loose-fitting but not baggy (not butt-hugging, panty-line-showing), made out of quick-dry fabric (I actually sweat at the gym), have pockets, and hey, how about reversible?  My current favorite gym shorts came from the boys' department...but they do sort of look like it!  <br />
2.  fun summer shoes that are not sandals (so I can wear them to church with pantyhose...I feel uncomfortable with bare legs in church, not to mention that my legs look better!) and, if they are flat, with some support in the arch (those shoe inserts for plantar fasciitis don't fit in every shoe).  <br />
3.  skirts with lining (try to find a good half-slip lately?)<br />
4. lightweight white pants (e.g., not denim) that you can't see through (really, a thong only works for someone who has a perfectly firm rear...and can stand to wear one!)<br />
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and that's just off the top of my head.<br />
What about you?
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      <title>Helping mom&#45;in&#45;law shop</title>
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      <published>2008-07-28T01:09:38Z</published>
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        I have a loving mother in law (she's 75) who has a difficult time with clothes.  I don't know what size she is now, but she used to wear a 14 1/2...petite!  Can't really find that anymore!  She is frugal (grew up with very little) so in addition to no wanting to spend a lot she KEEPS things for a long time and tends to dress in a matronly fashion...elastic waist pants, florals and prints that look "old," etc.  I went shopping with her for a pair of dress pants and told her I'd help her ONLY if she let me determine how long they should be.  She is 5 feet tall, short-waisted, and overweight and I would LOVE to take her shopping somewhere (she lives in the Chicagoland area) when I go to visit and just get her something NEW and NICE.  HELP!  Suggestions on what/where?
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      <title>What to wear with a pencil skirt&#63;</title>
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      <published>2008-06-22T21:12:08Z</published>
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        Last week I was at JC Penney with my 20-something and she convinced me to buy a high-waisted pencil skirt (on sale, of course).  I did get some help from other women in the fitting room, who approved.  Getting anything high-waisted feels so odd (not to mention all those thoughts of "Mom jeans") especially since I don't have much room between my waist and my bustline.  I have some great shoes to wear with this, but unsure about a top.  I know the classic look is a button down, but I'm not overly fond of them...they bunch up and come untucked...plus anything too bulky that's tucked in will show the bulk thru the skirt fabric.  I was thinking of a thin fitted knit shell (in white) with a thin knit sweater (the one I like is a bright green and hits about where the bottom of the skirt waistband is).  The shell has a short-sleeved sweater to match, but then I'll have to find a little something to pep it up a bit.  Could I wear a close-fitting thin knit v-neck tshirt?  I am resisting buying something new just to wear with the skirt.  It's black...I ought to be able to find stuff in my closet that will work!
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      <title>Makeup Tips for Mature Fashionistas&#63;</title>
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      <published>2008-07-03T10:19:06Z</published>
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        There's no denying it -- as we age, our skin changes in many ways, and lots of beauty experts say that mature women should adjust their makeup routines accordingly (i.e. colors, types of makeup, how it's applied). For example, using cream based eyeshadows vs. a drying powder, or lighter foundations to lessen the risk of settling into lines . . . <br />
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Do you agree that you should change your makeup routine as you mature, and if so, any tips on how you think mature fashionistas can adjust their makeup routine to their best advantage?
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