If everything you wear is basically just an excuse to show off, then the message you are sending is less “strong and sexy” and more “free to good home.” The honest truth is that whether it’s fair or not, everyone makes instant snap judgments. If the message you want to send is strong and sexy, then only choose to show off one asset at a time. If you highlight your cleavage, cover your legs. Showing off your back? Keep your boobs to yourself. Sexy isn’t about giving it all away. Sexy is all about the slow reveal.