The ascot. It’s posh and polished. And it’s not just for guys. “Borrow” one of your sweetie’s pocket squares or ties and drape it around your collar to resemble an ascot, or purchase a silk scarf from your favorite department store and fold it into an ascot-like shape to wear with your business suits. Choose bold colors that display your outgoing fashion sense, or a more refined pattern like argyle or paisley for an Ivy League look.